This past week of tragedy points out a critical flaw in the parenting style of America! What is this flaw? It is the flaw of failure of shepherding the hearts of our children! We are so busy as a nation appeasing our children, befriending our children, and trying to make our children happy at any expense that we have failed in the simple act shepherding them. We ask the question of our children, what do YOU want to do, what makes YOU happy, how do YOU want to do this and that? When did we stop asking ourselves, "What is best for them?" I believe that at the time that Children became the center of the household, rather than Christ guiding the parents as the center of the household, we lost our way. PARENTS... Stop and ask yourself, if you had the same decision making ability in your arsenal at birth-18 years old as we put in the arsenal of our children's hands today, would you have made wise decisions for your entire household? NO!!!! ...